A Mentor for Good Giving
Warning Against the
Teachers of the Law
38 As
he taught, Jesus said, “Watch out for the teachers of the law. They like to
walk around in flowing robes and be greeted with respect in the marketplaces, 39 and
have the most important seats in the synagogues and the places of honor at
banquets. 40 They devour widows’ houses and for a show make
lengthy prayers. These men will be punished most severely.”
The Widow’s Offering
41 Jesus
sat down opposite the place where the offerings were put and watched the crowd
putting their money into the temple treasury. Many rich people threw in large
amounts. 42 But a poor widow came and put in two very small
copper coins, worth only a few cents.
43 Calling
his disciples to him, Jesus said, “Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put
more into the treasury than all the others. 44 They all gave
out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything—all she had
to live on.”
Mark
12:38-44 New International Version (NIV)
Jesus’ description of the proud scribes first calls to mind
certain people in modern times – politicians that grandstand on religious and
family values while being guilty of financial, marital, and/or ethical
indiscretions. It’s almost too easy to relate to. But, Jesus isn’t just warning
us to be wary of boastful scribes, He is warning us to not become one of them.
In our pursuit to follow Jesus, the lines between being
faithful and becoming self-righteous can become blurred, if we are not careful.
It doesn’t take much to go from attending service every Sunday to looking down
on those that miss (or skip!), or, from joyfully placing an offering in the
collection plate to watching who places what and how often.
Jesus also talks about how the scribes “devour widows’
houses and for a show make lengthy prayers.” They are not only guilty of being
self-righteous and prideful; they are guilty of using their position of
trust/authority to prey upon the vulnerable, which is why they will be punished
in the end. They are terrible stewards.
Jesus then contrasts the rich people’s offerings to that of
the poor widow. He doesn’t say much about the rich people. He doesn’t say
whether they gave an appropriate tithe or not. We only know that despite giving
a lot of money, they are still rich. He focuses instead on the widow.
The widow serves as a foil to the scribes. We don’t know
anything else about the widow other than she is poor. She has no social standing.
The little that she gives - all that she has - will make no financial impact to
the temple. Yet, He praises her and says that she “has put more into the
treasury than all the others.” Why? It’s not because she gave a greater
percentage of her money compared to the rich people. It’s because she didn’t withhold.
She gave freely and put her trust in the Lord that it would all be okay anyway.
That is what God wants from all of us. He wants us to trust in Him. He wants us
to give of ourselves freely in His name.
My family doesn’t tithe…yet. We’ve raised our pledges every
year but we’re not at a point where what we give can be considered an actual
tithe of 10%. We give as we can. Sometimes it’s less than what we can actually
give and sometimes it’s our last $5. But it hasn’t always been that way.
Sometimes, when faced with giving our last dollars or
keeping it just in case, I chose to keep it. Then one day, a young single
mother, that often struggles to make ends meet, sat next to me in service. As
the offering plate came around, I put our envelope in the plate. She reached
into her purse, hesitated, and then placed $20 in the plate. And I wondered…was
that her last $20?
I often think about that day when I place money in our
offering envelope. And now, when some weeks are leaner than others, I don’t
hesitate to put our last few dollars in the collection plate and just pray for
the best. It’s a very small way for me to take a leap of faith. Yes, a couple
dollars here and there add up but in the grand scheme of things, taking that
leap and giving all you have does more for you spiritually than it does for the
church financially. And that’s kind of the point.
Does that mean that we should give all that we have, every
time? I don’t think so. Some people dislike when messages in service turn their
focus to giving more. They see it as the church’s way to ask for more money for
more things they think it might not necessarily need. And I’d be lying if I
didn’t think this sometimes myself.
Jarrod mentioned something in the service this past Sunday
that didn’t really strike me until I started writing this post. He said we needed to notice people more. I
didn’t give it much thought at first as I like to think that I do notice when
people are in need and step in to help when
I can.
But Jarrod said something else. He said that relationships
are just as important as tradition. Traditional “giving” dictates that we
contribute 10%. Relationships demand more than that. Sometimes, they can be
risky. Sometimes, we’re afraid that if we put ourselves out there, that we may
bite off more than we can chew. But God
wants us to take that leap and give freely and let Him figure out the
rest. As I was writing about the young
lady that inspired me to contribute more financially, I realized that even
though I wondered if that was her last $20, I didn’t do anything about it. I
didn’t invite her over for dinner to make sure she and her kids had something
to eat. I didn’t ask her if she wants to wash clothes at my house instead of
spending so much money at the laundrymat. I
haven’t done more than I can. Doing more doesn’t necessarily mean writing bigger
checks. And to think, I sought out to use her as an example to give more even though I failed to be more for her!
What Jesus is ultimately asking of us in modern times is to
be better stewards of our blessings. We can look to the poor widow as a good
mentor for good giving - in those times when we feel like we don’t have
anything to give, give anyway. I don’t think that means we have to give to our
last penny every time. But we also have our prayers, presence, talent, time,
and witness to give. And many times these are more precious than adding an
extra zero to a check or dropping an extra bill in the offering plate.
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